It might be hard to accept, but some kids with ADHD may not be dishonest as much as they are victims of uncontrolled ADHD symptoms. When you look at their lying problem through that lens, new solutions take shape.
Trish is handed a note by her math teacher, warning her that she has a dozen incomplete homework assignments. She is too ashamed and scared to discuss it with her parents. When the progress report is mailed home, she hides it from them, trying to avoid embarrassment and their wrath. Trish’s behavior calls for discipline, but her inability to finish homework requires ADD-friendly organization strategies.
Have a heartfelt talk with your teen about the serious consequences of breaking the trust between the two of you. Equally important, tell him how he can repair it. Follow these rules:Confront lying when it happens, but do so in a calm, respectful manner. The most important goal is to teach responsible behavior, not to criticize or blame.Demand accountability.
Taking responsibility means owning up to the lie, showing repentance, and offering a sincere apology to you and, in some cases, the family.When little George Washington told the truth about cutting down the cherry tree, he demonstrated character and, thus, received a lighter punishment.Free Download: 50 Disciplining Strategies for ADHD ChildrenEven when you’re tempted to blow a gasket, maintain a respectful relationship with your teenager.
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