Hearing 'no' is a big part of life, but it can be really frustrating for your toddler to be refused something without it becoming a tantrum or meltdown. Nonetheless, saying no to kids is a crucial part of parenting, as 'no' helps establish boundaries with kids, keeps them from danger and teaches them self-mastery and dealing with disappointment. Try these...
Hearing 'no' is a big part of life, but it can be really frustrating for your toddler to be refused something without it becoming a tantrum or meltdown.
The earlier you firmly establish your authority, the easier it will be for your child to learn that 'no' means no. Remember being overly strict with your child can backfire in the long run, so give them a little wiggle room and space to test their limits without threatening your final word.One way of diffusing an unpleasant situation is by offering your child an alternative that is at least as equally valued as their original request.
Important: Don't turn back and respond to any backtalk. It will just give your child more power over you to keep you turning back again and again. Going on about life after your child behaves badly to your 'no' keeps the power with the parents without a physical struggle.The parent-child relationship is a complex lifelong relationship, and it's not usually till adulthood that your child will start treating you as a friend.