Having more sex may not be a matter of making it more exciting or even scheduling more time for it. More often, it's just about making it less stressful.
If you worry about being criticized, judged, pressured, or in some way hurt when you have sex, it makes sense that you might start avoiding it. If you're not getting your needs met, it makes sense that you'd become less interested in having it. If you feel pressure to perform orUsually, the issues that present during sex also exist in your relationship outside of sex.
Sexual issues are relational issues. It's important to work on your relational issues if you want to have more sex. It's not reasonable to expect to want to have more sex when you don't feel emotionally safe in your relationship. And, it's best to work on these relational issues outside of the bedroom, rather than trying to do it when you're being intimate and you're at your most vulnerable.
Ultimately, having more sex is often the result of having more emotional connection and healing old wounds. Instead of focusing on the sex itself, shift your focus to working on the relationship and you'll find yourself moving along in your sex life as well.It's important to learn how to speak about your feelings and needs in a respectful way. When you communicate with criticism, your point is often missed and feelings are always hurt.
Working on these issues in your relationship will translate into your sex life and all areas of life. The more safety you and your partner feel together, the easier it will be to get in the mood more often.
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